not to sound like a christian facebook mom but some of yall need to have grace in your hearts for the people in your lives or the people you pass once on the road and never see again like you literally need to stop assuming the worst of everyone and their intentions it is poisoning your brain. you can be careful and responsible without being a miserable person. it is possible i promise
turning off reblogs on this post if one more person takes it to mean that marginalized people should not point out bigotry when they encounter it. if someone tells you that youve said or done something offensive they are not assuming anything about you or your intentions, they are doing you a favor by pointing it out so that IF it was an accident you can avoid doing it in the future. if you have to deflect and argue with them about it you are no longer acting out of ignorance you are being that way on purpose.
amhrancas 